S.R. Patch and others,
I know none of you, as I post here only once in a blue moon anymore. But, from time to time I do read the posts to see who is saying what about their hounds, and if any of the "old timers" are still around. I just had to pipe in on this one though because I felt you were being hammered for taking what I view as a very reasonable stand and asking some real good questions. I don't think you said anything out of line or worthy of having people threaten you about not crossing their paths.
I too wish this young fella the best for his child, "girlfriend", and baby, but share your concerns. I am also of a different day and obviously thought process. When I first read this post I thought it rang a bell with me so I went back and read all the other posts having to do with girl friend's, pregnancies, miscarriages, the girl running off with someone else, and another baby on the way. It all sounds a bit chaotic to me. This was all put out there for everyone to read, and as such it should be expected that not everyone would see it the same way.
As a father who lost his eleven year old son, I understand his feelings and know there is no greater suffering than comes from the loss of your child. As a mental health professional who has spent an entire career helping kids put their shattered lives back together, I also know the damage they suffer from unstable environments.
Best wishes to all,
NYH
When my life on earth is ended....this is all I'm gonna say...Lord I've been a hard working pilgrim on the way!
